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Tips on how to cope when looking after the elderly

Find trusted tradesmen for elderly

It’s difficult to find tradespeople you can trust and it’s even more of a worry when an older, vulnerable person needs help. That’s why the government have set up TrustMark. What should you look for when hiring a tradesman? 1. …

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Do alarm pendants really work?

Alarm pendants are small button alarms that are worn around the neck, or on the wrist, and can be activated by the wearer in case of an emergency. They work by connecting remotely to a box, which is fixed to the …

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What are the biggest issues affecting carers?

We discuss some of the biggest issues affecting carers and what you can do about them. Plan ahead As a carer ,think of what adaptations might help your parent move into your home more comfortably for all of you and also think about …

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Arts improve quality of life for older people

The arts can act as a preventative measure for many of the illnesses that go hand in hand with old age and genuinely work to improve quality of life for older people. We live in an ageing population. In Britain more …

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10 fun tips for entertaining grandparents at Christmas

Christmas is a great time for families getting together and different generations bonding over wonderful traditions. However, for the generations with the biggest age gap entertaining the grandparents and the children can be difficult. Here’s a few ideas for when the dinner …

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Combat elderly isolation this Christmas

Loneliness and social isolation is a reality for many older people all year round, but it is particularly prevalent at Christmas. At a time when friends and family are treasured and remembered, for those who have lost loved ones or …

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How to alleviate carer stress

Being a carer is tough and sometimes you really need to take a break, even if it’s only for a few minutes. Here are our top tips for alleviating your stress: Pick up the phone to a friend and have …

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What should you know about Funeral Etiquette

Here is our guide to some of the most common queries that people have about funerals and funeral etiquette. When a family member or close friend passes away, it is an emotional and stressful period of time for everyone involved …

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Caring from a distance for elderly: personal account

We happily go about our everyday lives thinking of ourselves as invulnerable. That is until something happens to us or a loved one which forces us to completely change our perspective. I have now reached a stage in life where, …

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Telecare: keeping older people happy at home

What is Telecare?  For lots of people the term ‘Telecare’ is totally foreign and something that takes time researching to understand.  Telecare can be described as a technical device that provides ‘care at a distance’.  Although the devices differ in …

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Top tips for grandparents looking after grandchildren

Keep advice to a minimum Having had children yourself, you can use your experience to help your son or daughter but be warned – don’t offer it if you are not asked unless you really feel you need to.  Try not …

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Tell Us Once Service helps bereaved

The idea behind Tell Us Once is simple. One notification of the death for all the relevant central and local government departments and services. The benefits to those who use it are huge. The bereaved no longer need to worry …

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Managing hospital discharge for elderly

If your elderly relative has been in hospital, it should be good news when they are ready to come home, but sometimes, managing their discharge from hospital can be a real worry. Can you ensure that they have the right …

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Older people’s right to end of life care

When a parent is facing a terminal illness, it can be difficult to have a conversation about how they would like their end of life care to be managed; however, without putting some practicalities in place, their wishes may not …

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Top tips to help a bereaved parent live alone

When your ageing parent is bereaved, whether their partner’s death was sudden, or prolonged, it takes a long time for them to adjust to living alone. When people have lived together for many years and shared the day-to-day responsibilities of running …

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Voluntary sector links state and isolated families

Loneliness and isolation in older people is increasingly recognised as a major aspect of life that can impact badly on an individual’s health and well being. Towards the end of last year Health Secretary Jeremy Hunt spoke of the national …

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Caring for elderly from a distance: factsheet

What is caring at a distance? The fact that we are living longer is wonderful achievement. And whilst many will enjoy good health in their later years some will require some form of support. Caring from a distance occurs when …

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Problems of loneliness and isolation in elderly

Loneliness is a major problem faced by elderly people throughout the UK and though it presents itself less obviously than psychological conditions such as dementia, people suffering from loneliness face serious health consequences These include increased stress and anxiety, increased …

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Knowing elderly are OK from a distance

Mum falling, dad becoming ill, gran having a fire, are all events that suddenly make us leap into action as individuals or families. These ‘events’ create stress and worry and force us to make decisions probably at the worst time, …

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Help elderly to keep in touch using technology

Many of us worry about older relatives and ageing parents, especially if we live far from them and can’t easily pop in for a cup of tea or a quick chat. I felt just this way about my mum. I also …

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Community support for elderly at Christmas

Everyone enjoys some peace and quiet and time away from the very busy lives that we all lead. It may be that you take a long walk in the countryside, curl up with a good book or enjoy a leisurely …

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Helping the Sandwich Generation

A recent Money Advice Service report into the “sandwich generation” revealed how squeezed people who provide support for both their children and parents feel. Its conclusions highlighted the tough job carers have in modern Britain One in ten people currently …

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Fear of Arranging a Funeral

Is someone you love about to die? If you have ever been in a position where someone you are very close to is in ill health and might not have long to live, you might find the following advice helpful …

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Creating a fulfilling life after loss

Few events in life are as painful as the death of your partner, but you can learn to live on in a way which honours your past and appreciates your present What does it really mean to have ‘lost’ your partner? …

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Caring for elderly as an expat

Cognitive neuroscientist and age specialist Dr Lynda Shaw is calling for better transparency and co-ordination of services and support for expats trying to find a care home for a loved one from abroad “If you are an expat you may …

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Top tips: caring for elderly from a distance

Set up a weekly online food delivery for your parent. Talk to them about what they would like to order each week, or do it for them, depending on their situation. You can always include a bunch of flowers or …

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Repetitive Questioning in Elderly

When a loved one has dementia, they often ask the same question many times over. Even the most patient person in the world can find this difficult to deal with and relationships can become very strained It is important to …

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Caring for elderly harder than it used to be

  Most of us were brought up with the fairytale notion of the perfectly happy family As children, we dreamt of this, even if our family of origin was sometimes troubled If you allowed yourself to daydream, you’d have imagined …

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People with ageing parents must talk

It’s important for people caring for elderly to talk How it started Ruth* was approaching 50, but since childhood had always been very close to her mother, Norma* They had many interests in common and the same sort of attitude …

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Grandparents are key source of childcare

Grandparents are now the most common source of informal childcare in the UK, with nearly two thirds providing childcare to grandchildren under the age of 16 The amount of time grandparents spend giving care has almost doubled since 2009, due …

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